Why are Blacks so rude, especially Black women?

I am a non-Hispanic brown guy. In my entire life, there have been a disproportionate number of rude people from the Black ethnic group than from the White group. This is not tantamount to saying that every Black person I have met was rude. That’s not the case. But certainly, it is palpable to me that Blacks are more likely to be rude in public than are White people.

Of course, there are many great Black people I admire: the incumbent president, the first lady, Will Smith, Kerry Washington, Chris Tucker, Chris Rock, Eminem (lol), Morgan Freeman, and others. But this fails to translate into everyday experiences with many Blacks. And I am not saying Brown people are any better.

I live in one of the most urban places in North Carolina. In fact, the part of North Carolina I live in has the most number of PhDs on a per capita basis in the entire United States. And it is pretty integrated too. Here, every time I go to a Sams Club or Walgreens — literally every time — the cashier is usually Black, as do many of the staff; and they are very rude. Today, my dad and I went shopping and the Black cashier was very indifferent to us, as usual. When the cart was on the usual side, she asked us to bring it to her side in a very rude tone, because the water bottles were on the cart and she didn’t want to look at it from her usual place. I would have confronted her had I gone with my brother. But today I just ignored her and left.

It is an entirely different experience with White people. They are much more polite, even more than Brown people of my specific ethnic group. Interestingly, the city I live in is comprised 45% of Whites and 44% of Blacks (11% others). So anyway you look at my experiences — collectively or per capita — my observations still hold to some precision.

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5 Responses to Why are Blacks so rude, especially Black women?

  1. I'm Listening... says:

    I have received, read, and considered your report. The accusation is found to be true by in its entirety by clear and convincing evidence. The accusation is sustained by the preponderance of evidence presented before me.
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  2. English muffin says:

    LOL eminem… nice haha
    Kay well as a black girl, some of my friends are like that. If i didnt have a strong sence of myself, i would be like that too. African parents are very no BS type people, and they are naturally very loud. Most of them. And they pick this up from their parents. See my parents are very introverted, and because im not as introverted, im kind of looked down upon. So i pick my polite soft spoken ways from my family.

    So i say it all originates from parents.
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  3. Kaboosh says:

    I think its because black people perceive themselves as victims of racial discrimination by the non-black community. They feel there is no point in being polite because they would be discriminated and look down upon anyway. Perhaps from their experience whites and browns had been rude to them all the time.
    Whites on the other hand go out of the way to be polite, perhaps in their eagerness to shed their racist reputation, fearing every action or inaction on their part would be misconstrued as racism.
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  4. Zzanzzanzz says:

    Aren’t brown and blacks the same thing??

    Anyways, blame the shitty parents.
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    TBH, I thought you were gonna mention raps somehow….

  5. The Bourne says:

    i know what you mean..
    i go to a school where it’s 50% Asian/Pacific Islanders/Indians (that’s right)
    40% white
    10% others (blacks, hispanics, others)

    when i walk around in the school, i ALWAYS see these black girls, and they always walk slowly, completely ignoring the running-because-they-are-late kids. they always talk loud with their ghetto talk like "wassupp giiiiiiiiiiiiirl", "get outtta face you stupid @aaaaaaaaaass h0e!" blah blah blah.
    it’s totally obnoxious. i’m faced with these kind of situations every single day, more from other black kids in the school.
    but they are keeping our basketball and football records excellent..so i dont complain out loud
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