So (just to give some background)..I just moved from NY to a relatively less urban area to go to grad school. I logged on to manhunt, just to see if there were any guys around the area, and ironically, there happens to be a guy within my age range, that also goes to the same grad school. He has a pretty demanding job (gets to work by 6am, gets back by 9ish).
So we talk for a little while (bout 2-30 minute conversations), and we agree to meet. We meet up, he picks me up and drives me to his place, and we chat for a while before having sex. I’ve had random hook-up sex before, but this really didn’t feel like it. First of all, it was *really* long..close to 3 hours. I ended up spending the night at his place (he had to get up early and didnt feel like driving me at like 2am, which I could definitely understand). When we wake up around 4:30, we have sex again..again, it was nice. Throughout the sex, he keeps talking about how he likes me, how he’d be upset if some other guy was with me, etc..he wasn’t drunk or anything, but then again, it could’ve just been bedroom talk, so…
The thing is, I *really* like this guy…but I dunno if he likes me. He says he’s free on friday, and we’re supposed to meet up again then, but honestly, I dont wanna wait..like, I want him *now*. I mean, he did say all that stuff, but like I said, it could’ve just been pillow talk. I texted him, but he didn’t respond, so…I just dont know what to do. Should I call him or just wait for him to call me back?
Well, sweetie, if you want to know if it’s pillow talk or not, I would go out with him friday and have a good time sans sex. If he still talks to you the same way as he did when you two were physical, it was sincere. And if you want to, bring it up over lunch/dinner (wherever the date takes you). I’m a blunt person, so if it were me I would say something like, "So the other night you said some really sweet things to me like…yadda yadda yadda…did you really mean that?" But I would only do that if you’re into the direct approach ^_^
He sounds sweet, and very responsible to have such a demanding career. I hope things go well for you.
The trouble with hookup sex is that both people sort of go into it planning on not going farther. When someone develops actual emotion, it gets cast aside. I’d say that you should move on and avoid hookups in the future. It probably was bedroom talk.
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Well, sweetie, if you want to know if it’s pillow talk or not, I would go out with him friday and have a good time sans sex. If he still talks to you the same way as he did when you two were physical, it was sincere. And if you want to, bring it up over lunch/dinner (wherever the date takes you). I’m a blunt person, so if it were me I would say something like, "So the other night you said some really sweet things to me like…yadda yadda yadda…did you really mean that?" But I would only do that if you’re into the direct approach ^_^
He sounds sweet, and very responsible to have such a demanding career. I hope things go well for you.
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dont sound to despret. but if hes makin plans wid u then he likes u and it wasnt just like a 1 night stand or anything.
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Just hope for friday to come. But honestly, if you keep trying to text him so soon, he’s going to think you’re desperate, and any small chance of it going further might vanish. Take it easy.
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