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	<title>Comments on: How can I stop this man from making my girlfriend cheat on me?</title>
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		<title>By: Dogsbody</title>
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		<dc:creator>Dogsbody</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 13 Mar 2010 14:35:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Are you thick or what? 

If your girlfriend is really faithful to you, she would stay with you so don&#039;t worry about that. 

 As for what he&#039;s doing, it could be considered sexual harassment,  so phone the police. 

However, before you do that,  talk with your girl.  He isn&#039;t a friend if he insists for her to  give him sexual favours.  Does he  have anything to hold over her to press her into doing that?  And as for her having no friends on the college, she could always get off of her bum and join the  study group. She lets him to dictate her life... this is a shame.

And why couldn&#039;t you two come clear with your relationship in front of him?

The bottom line, you should sue him for sexual harassment (you have evidence) or at least speak with his girlfriend.  And get your girl to take some self - defence classes.  There isn&#039; t any question if she&#039;s too sweet or anything, but she should know at least the basics - that would also raise her self - confidence.  She has to have resolve to punch, and to punch hard, when the push will come to shove - and if she continues with him, it undoubtedly will. (He would also accuse her of leading him on, if she continues doing what she does now) 

And there also exist anonymous phone services who deal with those kind of troubles - they would talk your girl through it, and give her emotional support. 

You are great, but you are only one. She needs to get emotional support from other people too, to be sure of herself.  (She&#039;s probably really shy type, who feels she has to be needed to be secure in relationship... just my feelings on this,)

Talk to her, and get her to see the fact. It won&#039;t be pleasant, but  it&#039;s necessary, if you two want to keep your relationship intact.

Hope it helps and take care,  
Dogsbody&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;References : &lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Are you thick or what? </p>
<p>If your girlfriend is really faithful to you, she would stay with you so don&#8217;t worry about that. </p>
<p> As for what he&#8217;s doing, it could be considered sexual harassment,  so phone the police. </p>
<p>However, before you do that,  talk with your girl.  He isn&#8217;t a friend if he insists for her to  give him sexual favours.  Does he  have anything to hold over her to press her into doing that?  And as for her having no friends on the college, she could always get off of her bum and join the  study group. She lets him to dictate her life&#8230; this is a shame.</p>
<p>And why couldn&#8217;t you two come clear with your relationship in front of him?</p>
<p>The bottom line, you should sue him for sexual harassment (you have evidence) or at least speak with his girlfriend.  And get your girl to take some self &#8211; defence classes.  There isn&#8217; t any question if she&#8217;s too sweet or anything, but she should know at least the basics &#8211; that would also raise her self &#8211; confidence.  She has to have resolve to punch, and to punch hard, when the push will come to shove &#8211; and if she continues with him, it undoubtedly will. (He would also accuse her of leading him on, if she continues doing what she does now) </p>
<p>And there also exist anonymous phone services who deal with those kind of troubles &#8211; they would talk your girl through it, and give her emotional support. </p>
<p>You are great, but you are only one. She needs to get emotional support from other people too, to be sure of herself.  (She&#8217;s probably really shy type, who feels she has to be needed to be secure in relationship&#8230; just my feelings on this,)</p>
<p>Talk to her, and get her to see the fact. It won&#8217;t be pleasant, but  it&#8217;s necessary, if you two want to keep your relationship intact.</p>
<p>Hope it helps and take care,<br />
Dogsbody<br /><b>References : </b></p>
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		<title>By: Del Clicker</title>
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		<dc:creator>Del Clicker</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 13 Mar 2010 14:06:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>GF, you have to tell your friend how you feel, straight out! The guy needs to know that you are both an item. If he drops her as a friend after finding out that you two are an item and in love, then let him go.

If your gf isn&#039;t prepared to do that then let HER go, because she can&#039;t have it both ways.

You don&#039;t need to hurt him, just be honest with him. If he can&#039;t respect that you and your gf are in love and neither of you want to have sex with anyone else then he&#039;s a dickh**d and blind as a bat.

What I&#039;d do, and this is really, really wild, I&#039;d invite him to watch you and your girlfriend making love. He&#039;ll run a mile, I betcha! If not, well, it could be fun!&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;References : &lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>GF, you have to tell your friend how you feel, straight out! The guy needs to know that you are both an item. If he drops her as a friend after finding out that you two are an item and in love, then let him go.</p>
<p>If your gf isn&#8217;t prepared to do that then let HER go, because she can&#8217;t have it both ways.</p>
<p>You don&#8217;t need to hurt him, just be honest with him. If he can&#8217;t respect that you and your gf are in love and neither of you want to have sex with anyone else then he&#8217;s a dickh**d and blind as a bat.</p>
<p>What I&#8217;d do, and this is really, really wild, I&#8217;d invite him to watch you and your girlfriend making love. He&#8217;ll run a mile, I betcha! If not, well, it could be fun!<br /><b>References : </b></p>
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		<title>By: centery</title>
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		<dc:creator>centery</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 13 Mar 2010 13:23:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>breaking up will end all this complicated mess!&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;References : &lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>breaking up will end all this complicated mess!<br /><b>References : </b></p>
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		<title>By: almarj70</title>
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		<dc:creator>almarj70</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 13 Mar 2010 12:33:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>It takes two to tango, if your girlfriend doesn&#039;t love you enough to be faithful to you then she is not worth the effort.&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;References : &lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It takes two to tango, if your girlfriend doesn&#8217;t love you enough to be faithful to you then she is not worth the effort.<br /><b>References : </b></p>
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