Freeze puts bite on aid, resources
By DEBORAH CIRCELLI
Staff Writer
DAYTONA BEACH — As volunteers stocked the pantry behind them, Nadine McLaurin sat with her 3-year-old daughter wondering where they will sleep the rest of the week.
The Daytona Beach mother was taking refuge inside the Halifax Urban Ministries offices as agency leaders worked with other groups in the area to find a more permanent solution for her, her daughter and 6-year-old son.
"We are very concerned about this young family," said the Rev. Troy Ray, the agency’s executive director. "Our primary focus is to try to find a positive, permanent solution for this family to be off the street."
McLaurin, 44, was one of more than 100 homeless people staying in cold weather and emergency shelter earlier this week and Tuesday night.
After staying at a Port Orange church Monday night, she was taken with other homeless people to a church in Deltona on Tuesday where she and her children would stay in a separate room.
Homeless advocates said it’s unusual to have a mother with children show up with other homeless individuals seeking shelter on cold nights. This is the first time it’s happened in the seven years Halifax Urban Ministries has been working with area churches to open when temperatures creep below 40 degrees, Ray said. The problem, he said, is there’s not enough existing shelter to help people long-term.
The STAR Family Center shelter on North and Segrave streets for families and people with medical issues is full, with two families added Tuesday and another today for a total of 84 people, including 48 children. Nine other families are on a wait list.
In McLaurin’s case, she’s no stranger to getting help. She was in the Family STAR Center shelter for six months in 2008 and went into public housing, but left before she was about to be evicted because she didn’t have money for rent, she said.
She’s had various jobs and in the past year has been "bouncing from house to house" of friends and family, including another 23-year-old daughter, who also recently helped care for the two children. She also had been in a domestic abuse shelter recently, she said.
McLaurin, who has five other grown children in New York and Florida, also has been on probation for issuing a worthless check. The father of one of her children is in prison for uttering a forged check, she said.
She said Tuesday while her daughter was playing on her lap with a toy and her 6-year-old son was in school that she’s trying to get back on her feet and is grateful to area agencies. Being on the streets, McLaurin said, "is not a good place to be worrying about where you will lay your head or where your next meal is going to come from."
McLaurin is unable to go back to the STAR center because it’s full, officials said, and also because the agency generally only lets people stay once for about six months or longer if they are making progress to get a job.
Meanwhile, the STAR center’s dining room area was opening as a cold weather shelter Tuesday night, along with two churches in Bunnell and Deltona. Two other churches, which have not been involved in the past, have offered to open today and later this week.
But Ray said a long-term solution is needed. His agency, he said, is taking over the STAR Family Center and is working with the local homeless coalition to get grants to expand long-term shelter services to 100 additional beds, which will include room for individuals. Ray also wants to see a day center there where people can stay during the day and have case managers to help with job placements.
Meanwhile, other agencies are also helping people because of the cold.
The Jewish Federation of Volusia-Flagler Counties had several people come forward to donate used and new jackets. But the director is worried about meeting the demand from people seeking assistance next month with high utility bills afterrunning their heat. St. Elizabeth Ann Seton Catholic Church in Palm Coast helps with water and electric bills and propane, if needed, in addition to food and other help. Halifax Urban Ministries also helps with electric bills and will help provide people with propane gas.
The Council on Aging checked in the fall on its more than 4,000 clients ages 60 and over to ensure they have working heaters. The agency also sees its clients daily when delivering meals.
"We don’t wait until the difficult weather condition is upon us," said Gail Camputaro, executive director. "We check in the fall to make sure all are prepared for this kind of situation."
deborah.circelli@news-jrnl.com
Why, because she’s homeless? She’s not negligent, she’s poor. Have you been reading the news? Bad economy, loss of jobs, people can’t find work, or if they can it’s not permanent. She has a 3-year-old, so I bet she can’t afford day care for her child while she takes a minimum wage job. I’m guessing her parents couldn’t afford a fancy college, so she didn’t get the education required for anything better.
What I see is that the price of everything is going up. Rent, transportation, food, and my employer, while raising his prices, isn’t raising our wages. I’m working now, but if I got sick, if I slipped and fell, I could be in her place.
The government and shelters will be supporting this little family one way or another. Might as well let them be together.
please shorten this and I will answer it if you send it to me exactly what did the woman do or not do?
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Why, because she’s homeless? She’s not negligent, she’s poor. Have you been reading the news? Bad economy, loss of jobs, people can’t find work, or if they can it’s not permanent. She has a 3-year-old, so I bet she can’t afford day care for her child while she takes a minimum wage job. I’m guessing her parents couldn’t afford a fancy college, so she didn’t get the education required for anything better.
What I see is that the price of everything is going up. Rent, transportation, food, and my employer, while raising his prices, isn’t raising our wages. I’m working now, but if I got sick, if I slipped and fell, I could be in her place.
The government and shelters will be supporting this little family one way or another. Might as well let them be together.
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No, these children have a loving mother and are not being abused or exposed to emotionally disturbing situations. They are unfortunately homeless, but that does not mean they should be taken away from the only mother and family they know and trust. The mother has had some personal issues with the law for writing back checks, but that has little to do with how she treats her kids. The mother seems to be doing everything in her power to find temporary shelter and food with the help of homeless shelters and other organizations. As long as the children are sleeping some place dry and warm, then they are still better off with their mother, then alone and scared with a foster family or CPS services around people they do not know or trust.
I hope people agree with me. I work with inner city children and I’ve heard of FAR WORSE cases involving CPS. I’ve seen kids come in with dirty clothes, repeat outbreaks of lice and kids who haven’t been bathed in days. Other kids are in homes where drugs or gang activity is taking place, Children have told me they witnessed their mom’s boyfriend or their own father beat them or their mother. Kids with trauma due to violence or sexual assault. I have also seen children who have spent time in CPS and have bad emotional issues due to the neglect or abuse they sometimes face in that situation.
Being homeless is bad and not ideal. But, at least they’re homeless, loved and safe.
P.S.-CPS isn’t all it’s cracked up to be anyway. It’s sad to say, but they have so many cases, they have to prioritize and some kids get overlooked.
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She’s not neglecting her kids but something needs to be done. A lot of information is not stated in this report, like why can’t she continue to stay with her oldest daughter and why hasn’t she been able to get and keep a job.
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I think someone should call cps so that maybe they can come and place the kids in a safe warm home where they will be fed and cared for til this woman can get her life together. It’s just to bad that there is not a place that can help women with kids get a place to live and maybe help get them some sort of training for a job. There is just not enough money for this and instead of the president giving billions of dollars to car companies that get their selves in trouble he should work on taking that money and building places just for women who have kids where they can have a place to stay with their kids and get training to get a job. I would love to have the money to do just that but I can not get the president to give me money because I am not some rich dumb ass that can not run a business.
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